@ShashaSelflove 3/08/16 Tell Me


I don’t know how long I am going to be here, neither do you.  So while we are still able to say how we feel about one another, what we think and what our hopes are – allow yourself the opportunity to let it be known.

Tell me how you really feel, don’t be afraid because in an instant we can be gone. The opportunity is going escape you,  like water in between your fingers, time waits for no one.  Don’t hold back, you have nothing to lose – if you stay quiet that person will never know and if you confess they will either correspond or not. At the very least you were able to get it off you chest and you won’t live with, “what if”, which is the worst kind of torture. What if I would have finally told her that I want a relationship with her? What if I would have asked her out? What would our lives have been like? What if I told him I thought he was cute? What would our friendship have been like? What if I would have given myself the opportinity to love again? Would have, could have and should have.

The thought rolls around in your mind, what if I had given myself the chance to try again? Yes, the time I tried was a fail and it hurt like hell, but your prior experience gave you something – wisdom. Tell me about your failures and I can share mine too, everything you have had to endure is leading to your destination. Those that you open up to can offer you their experiences and you may learn more than you expected.

So tell me your hopes and dreams, tell me about the time you got stuck in the elevator (I got stuck in the elevator with the elevator service guy…yup…that happened), tell me about your broken heart and what we can do to repair it. Maybe the other person is just waiting for you to finally let your guard down, perhaps they cry every night thinking of how great you could be together. They don’t know you but they are waiting for you to arrive. Maybe they don’t know how to or are to timid to tell you about themselves.

It is intimidating because you have to let your guard down, opening up isn’t easy. You are positioning yourself in a place of vulnerability, I never said this was going to be easy – just worth it. Now that you still can, gather up the courage – find them, they might be right in front of you. There is someone waiting for you and wispering into the wind, “Tell me how you really feel and I will listen”. Big hug!

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7 thoughts on “@ShashaSelflove 3/08/16 Tell Me

    1. We have modern technology! We have the science! I will be back over there soon, we can drive out to Las Vegas and by the end of the trip one of us will be in a head lock…good times! I love you too!

    1. Hmm…it is never to late. I would like to fall in love for the first time, how about that?! You have to let go, you can’t bring baggage into your future!

      1. Are you sure the elevator service guy wasn’t trying to tell YOU something ! Seems odd that an elevator would stall with an elevator service guy on board ! ; )

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