We celebrate our freedoms differently, some say what they want and others live how they please. It is the constant pressure of those attempting to impose their norms that creates havoc, hence they have a sense thay they are free to take away from your freedoms. Seems strange but very true, I say be free to love who you want, practice a life that brings you joy and a be good to those that may not necessarily to kind to you.
You are in no obligation to live a life that is miserable for you and joyful to those watching. Many keep telling you to like this and wear that, ugh! Wear the black shirt everyday, just please wash it or have 10 black shirts. Don’t like skirts? Don’t wear one. Easy! You aren’t obligated to be noce to certain people regardless of their relation, you can’t be forced to agree with certain politics and you don’t have to apologize for it either.
Be free to live your life and if you find yourself in a spot where you are trying to tell someone what to do all the time, stop it. You are losing your life trying to worry about things that in truth, you can’t control. Seek a level of freedom for yourself and let others do the same, you’ll be happier for it. Big hug!